February 17, 2010

Stop Selling | Start Building

It Takes a Community to Raise a Relationship.

If you have spent time on the social web, you have seen and read about relationships and sharing, building trust and giving more than receiving. If you participate - really participate - something will begin to happen. People will show up.

Others will begin to give back and ask for help (not freebies) and you really will build trust with people you may not have otherwise met.

Just Like The Real World.

These things take time and hard work. It also requires getting off the social channels and meeting others face-to-face or speaking with them on the phone. Or as a Mike Kujawski calls it - taking it offline.

Social media can eliminate the cold part of the call and open up opportunities to warm up a potential new relationship.

I am not a social media expert and neither are you.

Real conversations and actual collaboration with other humans remains the best way to network socially. The door can open to new possiblities through the social web but then it is up to us to decipher between an opportunity to build another real human relationship and junk mail for the recycle bin.

Keep building your community and let me know how it's going.
knealemann
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19 comments:

Jacki said...

Love this, sharing this, doing this! Thanks :-)

Susan said...

Quote of the night from @knealemann "Social media can eliminate the cold part of the call." Read the rest here: http://bit.ly/cQslxz

Marie said...

I'm about a year in to social media and I do it B2B and B2C and F2F (friend to friend) and enjoying it a lot.

The scams are everywhere, get used to it. Those wanting quick results are everywhere, ignore them.

Dana said...

RT @knealemann: New Post: Stop selling and start building. http://bit.ly/UHFbW #socialmedia #relationships #business [well said]

John said...

Well said!

Bryan said...

RT @knealemann: New Post: Stop selling and start building. http://bit.ly/UHFbW #socialmedia #relationships #business

Larry said...

Nailed it. Read this. RT @knealemann: New Post: Stop selling and start building. http://bit.ly/UHFbW

Patrick said...

RT @knealemann: New Post: Stop selling and start building. http://bit.ly/UHFbW #socialmedia #relationships #business

Donna said...

Always illuminating - @knealemann New Post: Stop selling and start building. http://bit.ly/UHFbW #socialmedia #relationships #business

Karen said...

New Post: Stop selling and start building. http://bit.ly/UHFbW #socialmedia #relationships #business RT from @knealemann

Nicole said...

Always a good reminder: http://bit.ly/aSo3Mp from @knealemann

Débora said...

Great RT @knealemann: New Post: Stop selling and start building. http://bit.ly/UHFbW #socialmedia #relationships #business

Kneale Mann said...

Jacki, thanking you. km

Kneale Mann said...

Thanks Susan :-) km

Kneale Mann said...

Marie, you have been doing social media your entire life. km

Kneale Mann said...

Dana & John - thanks much! km

Kneale Mann said...

Larry, kind of you to say sir. km

Kneale Mann said...

Donna - illuminating? Wow, that's a first! Ha! km

Patrick said...

RT @knealemann: New Post: Stop selling and start building. http://bit.ly/UHFbW #socialmedia #relationships #business

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